Russia isn't an enemy for the west. That is China. Russia is really just a pest.
Russia isn't a major player anymore. Their inability to conquer Ukraine is proof of that.
It's like if Italy was trying to pretend they still run the world and they were upset that France was getting too friendly with the Brits and claimed that justified an invasion.
We were unable to fully win in Nam, Iraq and Afghanistan.... Does that make the US a Non-player as well?